EOPC Links: Jeff Dunetz aka YidwithLid aka Sammy Benoit

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

Jeff Dunetz aka YidwithLid aka Sammy Benoit

(This expose was first published in February 2005)

UPDATE: As of May 2010: Mr. Dunetz has still been threatening one of his victims' by posting her name, where she lives and saying that despite her serious, diagnosed disability she needs to "get a job" on various websites. Dunetz must be focused on her because he knows where she lives and despite not being the person who initially outed him - Dunetz NEEDS someone to blame! Heaven forbid a cyber predator ever takes accountability or apologizes to their victims. Dunetz also still believes this person owns & runs EOPC! He hasn't read our site has he? So narcissistic he thinks he's the only predator we've exposed! A restraining order has been in place for a while and police are aware.

(Mr. Dunetz - It is slanderous to say a legally disabled person needs to 'get a job' - especially since their physician AND the government says they CAN'T work. Many of our members are permanently disabled - predators love these VULNERABLE people. Social Insurance Disability is an Insurance Policy paid to the government when people were able to work, in case they became disabled so none of your victims are 'on the dole' sir. Weren't your victims all disabled or ill, Mr. Dunetz? Most disabled people would love to work but CAN NOT. And what about yourself, Mr. Dunetz? Still sponging off the wife?)

(big difference between telling to help yourself heal - and posting things in a "False Light" for revenge; which is ILLEGAL)

Since Mr. Dunetz outed HIMSELF on his blog and other places... we are no longer obligated by one of his Targets' request to maintain his anonymity. And remember, even if he says he's changed - he has yet to make any sort of genuine amends or reconciliation attempts to his victims (he uses the excuse it would 'hurt his wife and family to do so.' How about the harassment and smear and slander you subjected these women to? the trauma you caused them?) Like our typical sociopathic predators, he probably thinks they should be "OVER IT by now."

FEBRUARY 2005 Predator of the Month: A Review of Gridney/ YidwithLid/ Sammy Benoit

Gridney/ Yidwithlid: Closing in for the Kill

Gridney/ Yidwithlid Moving to the Next Level

Gridney/ Yidwithlid Follows Seduction (Sales/ Marketing) Patterns to the Letter

Gridney/ Yidwithlid's Pack of Lies Starts to Unravel

Gridney/ YidwithLid: Open Mouth - Insert Keyboard

Gridney/ Yidwithlid: A Review of His Tangled Timeline

Gridney/ Yidwithlid's Impersonal Apology & More Painful Sex, Lies & Cyberpathy

"J"/ Gridney/ Yidwithlid: Sex Addict & Predator Finally Revealed

One of "J"/ Gridney/ Yidwithlid's Victims Takes a Stand

That Something More about "J"/ Gridney/ Yidwithlid

Final Note on Sammy Benoit / Gridney/ Yidwithlid and a Word About Cyberpaths

Links NOT Done by EOPC:

Homemade Porn Video sent by Yidwithlid to Target #2 (FBI and NYPD have copies) (EXPLICIT MATERIAL! - Please be warned)

When Cyberpaths Attack: Gridney/ Yidwithlid (a perfect example)

Just one of Gridney's Online Sex Partner Wanted Profiles (posted by him in 2000 - YEARS before he targeted our victims)

ECard YidwithLid sent Target #2 with the message "Can't wait to do this to you." (explicit material!)

YidwithLid's YouTube Account

gridney/ Yidwithlid

Yidwithlid/ Sammy Benoit's Facebook Page

Yidwithlid/ Sammy Benoit's Twitter Page

Stalking, An Example: Yid with Lid

YidwithLid Fails at the Internet

The sob-story from YidwithLid's favorite madam

Anyone with information about him violating the protective order taken out by Target #1 Contact: Click Here

Sammy Benoit / Gridney/ Yidwithlid's whitewashed, selective-truth telling, blame-shifting, the-real-victim-here-is-me story of what happened (published on his own site March 2007). He accuses one of his victims (the wrong one, BTW) of defamation, lying and harrassment while painting himself as a complete martyr & practically innocent party - Since publication and our further investigation, 'gridney' has removed this 'story' from his blog and tried to from other sites - but cached copies remain on the web and on Web archives. This is classic cyberpath-rewriting history: CLICK HERE

A Private Eye Digs up Dirt on YidwithLid

Dunetz does the classic cyberpath move - if I lie about it long enough and loud enough, people will believe my lies. No, sir, they won't:

"... they started tweeting links to Internet slanders, originally made about me over seven years ago. These lies included charges about me being a sexual predator, using hookers, etc. - Jeff Dunetz"

To the best of EOPC's knowledge, NYPD knows the truth. They threw a $2M/year brothel madame named Julie Moya in jail in part, because of what Dunetz himself posted online. (Dunetz' posts were traced, by CITU unit of NYPD, to Dunetz' IPs and home)

Dunetz outed on BREITBART UNMASKED

Dunetz out the EX-EXAMINER

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"We hear about Internet predators for children, I don't think we're hearing very much about Internet predators for middle age women at all. And that bothers me,"-- SANDRA PHIPPS

"When [] predators are found using the Internet a common response of the Internet industry and government officials is to blame someone else, or say that nothing can be done to stop it." -- Donna M. Hughes, PhD; Univ. of Rhode Island

"We must do whatever it takes to minimize or eliminate [the predator's] access to vulnerable prey as targets of opportunity. Period. For ever. Indeed, these people will thank us for it. Consider how many [cyberpaths] deliberately get themselves caught just to stop themselves." - Kathy Krajco

"[APOLOGIES] are not some pious, phoney-baloney, half-hearted rendition of what you think they want to hear. Nor is it a watered-down, politically correct 'confession' that you think will buy you closure at the expense of truth... [admit] what you are doing to screw up your life. This also means admitting that you are getting payoffs for what you're doing, however sick or subtle those payoffs are. - Dr. Phil McGraw"

"[Online Predators] count on our shame to keep their secrets. They know that exposing them means exposing our own failings. That's what makes them so powerful. They manipulate us into these situations then sit back & watch us squirm between protecting ourselves or blowing the whistle. The [victim often] is still emotionally connected to the [Cyberpath], thus protecting them and accusing them alternatively. Many [victim]s will not name their [cyberpath]s to counsellors or other helpers, thus protecting their identity. The hook, which the [Cyberpath] has implanted in their heart, is hard to remove. If you want something to cry about, cry for the [Cyberpath]'s new victim(s), the innocent, unmarked, un-inoculated prey. These victims are carefully chosen... - Mary Ann Borg Cunen"

"Internet dating is populated, to a large degree, by criminals and married people. Estimates have gone up to 30% that online daters are married. That represents an emotional risk to our membership base." - Herb Vest, CEO of True.com

"How do we go from fantasy to reality? Lots of people have private fantasies that give them some sort of pleasure and maybe even trouble them, but they don't act on them. I think one of the contributory facts-- it's not the only one-- is the insidious nature of the internet itself. I think there are three things that are problematic about the Internet, or at least three things. One is the easy accessibility. You don't, in the beginning at least, have to go anywhere. You just push a button that's sitting there next to you.

Secondly, there's this illusion of anonymity, which can be very disinhibiting. You feel as though you're there in the privacy of your bedroom. It's not that private, but you don't sense that at the time. And thirdly, there is a distortion of reality and fantasy to some extent. That people feel as though they're playing a game. They're making up who they are. They wonder if someone else is giving a false persona. They begin to do things that in the light of day they might never have done and then, ultimately and sadly, sometimes cross a line that they might not otherwise have crossed. Where do they get the message [the internet] is where you can go? We've created a "we versus they" mentality. And I understand that what they do is offensive. It's aggravating. It makes me angry. But we're not going to solve the problem by pushing it further underground." - Dr. Fred Berlin, Psychiatrist, Johns Hopkins University on "DATELINE NBC"

"I love words. I believe in the power of words. I believe that if truthful words are spoken, written, shared, they will be heard, and they will be answered. Not with a [cyberpath]. You get sucker-punched in trying to explain something. There is no response to what is said. Words are deflected, twisted, questions answered with questions, non sequitors abound." - Anne, NarcissisticAbuse.com

This is the classic emotional rape scenario: the use of a higher emotion (such as love) to fulfill a hidden agenda... There can be no hidden agendas in real love. These features, even if identified in retrospect, can help victims understand what has happened to them, giving them a chance of real recovery. - Dr. Mike Fox, The Emotional Rape Syndrome

"Powerful and sneaky people use apologies as end runs around repentance. They betray a trust; and, when they have been found out, they say they are sorry for "mistakes in judgement"... They get by only because we have lost our sense of the difference between repentance for wrong and apologies for bungling... We should not let each other get away with it. A deep and unfair hurt is not a mere faux pas. We cannot put up with everything from everyone; some things are intolerable. When someone hurts us deeply and unfairly an apology will not do the job; it only trivializes a wrong that should not be trifled with." -- - Lewis B. Smedes, "Forgive and Forget"

"The [exposed Cyberpath] on the other hand, cannot rest until they have blotted out a vaguely experienced [target] who dared to oppose them, [expose them], to disagree with them or to outshine them. [The Cyberpath] can never find rest because they can NEVER FULLY wipe out the evidence that has contradicted their conviction they are unique and perfect. This archaic rage goes on and on and on." - Dr. Ernest Wolf

"Words are easy...Reality isn't"

"In the end, we will remember not the words of our enemies, but the silence of our friends." -- Martin Luther King, Jr.

"Example after example, the story is the same. Internet predators who victimize the innocent with calculating, heinous acts of disregard, continue to go free. Their activities sometimes even condoned as "free speech". What may be most troubling however is the ever present excuse making of our elected officials who continue to hide under a desk when the public calls upon them for justice in these cases... why don't officials track down the author behind these offensive attacks? The technology certainly exists...

The excuse lawmakers use to let themselves off the hook stem from the growth of the Internet and how fast it's changing. This is a sham. Chat rooms, message boards, instant messengers and email have been in existence for far over a decade now. While the software used to transmit messages changes slightly, the basic essence of using the Internet to send a message is largely the same. Is a decade or two long enough to establish some basic decency laws in regards to Internet usage?" - Danny Vice

"... LOVE BOMBING or showing an unusually intense interest in [someone’s] life and activities — is manipulative and deceitful ...particularly one at a vulnerable stage, such attention can be flattering, but []it represents an early attempt at mind control. Mind-control techniques such as love-bombing are designed to bypass a person’s intelligence and especially his critical-thinking skills. When a lonely or hurting person suddenly receives an overwhelming amount of love and acceptance, it is extremely difficult for him to stand back and assess the reasons for this or question something he desperately doesn’t want to have disappear." - Jason Gay, The Boston Phoenix

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Jeff Dunetz aka YidwithLid aka Sammy Benoit

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